Romance The Pants Off

Keep the romance alive in your life!

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Love Quotes

"Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low." Henry Ward Beecher


Think about this statement for a few minutes.

"Love cannot endure indifference."


Are you being indifferent?

Are you actively trying to grow your relationship?

Do you still want love, or is your relationship just one more thing that's on the back burner, until you have time.

If you are being indifferent you need to make time for love today.

Quit putting your relationship on the back burner - feed it the oil from your heart today, so the flame won't grow low.






Friday, March 17, 2006

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Do you have special plans today?

If you do, or if you don't, why don't you try to do something a little special!

Perform a random act of kindness (RAOK) ... for your spouse!

Enjoy!

Happy St. Patrick's Day.




Friday, March 10, 2006

Make a Romance List

Sometimes it is hard to be romantic.

It's even harder when you don't know what your spouse thinks is romantic, or when your ideas of being romantic or different.

Just imagine how you would feel if you tried to do something that you thought was incredibly romantic for your spouse, and they weren't impressed.

If only you had a way to know exactly what your spouse considered romantic...

Well you can!

So make a list of things that you think would make you feel loved, cherished, and romanced, and ask your SO to make a list as well!

Ask your SO what they think is romantic, and ask them what you can do to keep the romance alive, and make your SO feel loved.

Your spouse might think a suprise fresh bouquet of flowers is the most romantic thing ever, or they might not.


Maybe your SO wants you to tell him/her that you love them more often.

Maybe you want your SO to touch you more, hold your hand out in public, or actually listen to you when you tell them about your day.

Although sitting down and making lists doesn't sound very romantic, once you have the list it will be so much easier for you to romance your spouse, without wondering whether your idea of romance and their idea of romance is the same.

So go ahead!

Make your list, and ask your spouse to make one as well.

And don't get to upset if they don't want to make the list at first, because that would defeat the purpose.